Hi guys below is an interesting argument between me and my friend Dharmveer on whether to like some one die heart or not, pls leave your precious comments too ...here goes...
[12:00:53] Dharamveer Saxena: bhai I m not talking that he is efficient or not .. ya I m better ... I m just telling you that no one should be so die heart fan of any one
[12:00:51] Nitin Sharma: yar it's a matter of personal choice
[12:01:03] Nitin Sharma: i think u must be die heart fan of many pple
[12:01:08] Nitin Sharma: seeing their good things
[12:01:19] Nitin Sharma: of u start seeing negative things more
[12:01:27] Nitin Sharma: we cant ever be fan of anyone
[12:01:39] Nitin Sharma: i am looking for some serius mentor in my life
[12:01:59] Nitin Sharma: i want to be die heart fan of some very efficient personality
[12:02:04] Nitin Sharma: the way he is
[12:02:19] Nitin Sharma: but not able to find my idol as yet
[12:02:24] Nitin Sharma: i hope koi jaldi mile
[12:02:46] Nitin Sharma: that is y i created account on sillicon india
[12:02:52] Nitin Sharma: there u can make ur mentors
[12:03:06] Nitin Sharma: very highly placed IT professionals
[12:03:19] Nitin Sharma: they willingly agree to be ur mentor
[12:03:36] Nitin Sharma: but so far havn got enuf time to explore that, will do soon
[12:03:47] Dharamveer Saxena: yr if you like any quality in otherwhich attract you .. then try to build that thing in u.. but Y to become a die heart fan
[12:04:10] Dharamveer Saxena: pata nahin.. but I can't
[12:04:20] Nitin Sharma: look if i like amitabh it doesnt mean i have to act
[12:04:20] Dharamveer Saxena: be a die heart fan of anyone
[12:04:36] Nitin Sharma: this thing comes naturally
[12:04:42] Nitin Sharma: u dont become fan out of choice
[12:04:52] Nitin Sharma: its deep subcounscious feeling
[12:04:56] Nitin Sharma: u knw respect
[12:05:01] Nitin Sharma: it comes from inside
[12:05:12] Nitin Sharma: like m not fan of "VS"
[12:05:23] Dharamveer Saxena: till fan is ok.. I m fan of amitabh.. but I am not a die heart fan of him who always try to follow him..
[12:05:27] Nitin Sharma: but some of his things have created lot of respect for him in me
[12:05:29] Dharamveer Saxena: in each things
[12:06:10] Nitin Sharma: man big things can be achieved only with extreme feelings
[12:06:18] Nitin Sharma: mediocre things dont help these days
[12:06:30] Nitin Sharma: do everythng anythng with die heart feeling
[12:06:39] Nitin Sharma: thats somethng not everyone can do
[12:06:45] Dharamveer Saxena: extreme feelings wrt to achiveing that big thing.. not by following others path
[12:06:47] Nitin Sharma: fan can be anyone
[12:07:02] Dharamveer Saxena: who achived that big thing
[12:07:13] Nitin Sharma: ya that is also true that dont get carried awaya stay unbiased and mature
[12:07:50] Nitin Sharma: but at our age we probably dont have enuf expereience to be that mature. we cannt see all the paths
[12:08:05] Nitin Sharma: so best way is to follow someone who's alrdy doing well and alrdy there
[12:08:10] Nitin Sharma: u get me?
[12:09:00] Dharamveer Saxena: galat
[12:09:02] Dharamveer Saxena: galt
[12:09:04] Dharamveer Saxena: galat
[12:09:13] Dharamveer Saxena: I will explain u in the break...
[12:09:21] Dharamveer Saxena: don't type
[12:09:22] Dharamveer Saxena: wait
[12:10:21] Dharamveer Saxena: In simple words: no one should be a die heart fan or a total follower of other...
[12:10:51] Nitin Sharma: My view is this only is the way forward
[12:11:12] Nitin Sharma: In such fast pace lives you dont have time to explore everythng urselves
[12:11:32] Nitin Sharma: test the one who u r becoming fan of..take time to judge
[12:11:51] Nitin Sharma: then committ and follow....with ofcourse OPen eyes
[12:12:04] Dharamveer Saxena: yes.. so just learn the things that other had learnt from there experience but ismain die heart fan ki baat kahana se aa gayi
[12:12:32] Nitin Sharma: ok lets now take ur definition of "Die heart fan"
[12:12:54] Nitin Sharma: this topic is getting interesting m gonna post this on my blog
[12:13:10] Nitin Sharma: but lets ensure we end up with conclusion
[12:13:17] Dharamveer Saxena: sure
[12:16:12] Nitin Sharma: Ok for me die heart fan means ... i close look at someones tasks, startegies and planning and ofcourse attitude
[12:16:37] Nitin Sharma: and I try to inculacate many habits of him in me coz i blv wht he does is right
[12:16:40] Dharamveer Saxena: I think Die heart Fan are those who always wants to be like the one (who attracted him) .. one who follows blindly on the path of his mentor.. etc etc
[12:17:31] Dharamveer Saxena: Ok.. so you should just try to build all those gud quality in you...
[12:17:42] Nitin Sharma: yes exactly...but i blv we guys are smart enuf not to follow anyone religiously as we dont follow religion itself these days
[12:17:43] Dharamveer Saxena: but Y to be a DHF
[12:18:24] Nitin Sharma: for the simple reason that if you keep judging some one all the time...you have no time left to follow his good side
[12:19:01] Nitin Sharma: and I think to move forward in life if u get ready made chart and plan little cost of wrong deeds is quite ok
[12:19:33] Dharamveer Saxena: yr... if some one is soft spoken.. and if its attract you then try to be like him and try to build that thing in you...
[12:20:02] Nitin Sharma: But the best part is if you are capable and mature enuf to draw best life plan on your own nuthng can compete
[12:20:04] Dharamveer Saxena: if a person is hard worker and if it attract you then try to grasp that thing.. and move forward
[12:23:31] Nitin Sharma: which is right..thats exactly wht i mean.
